Sebaliknya hanya duduk di rumah sambil menikmati lubang bontot Ina sepuas puasnya.Hampir seminggu aku tidak nampak Ina di kelas selepas kejadian itu.
Learning to not raise your hand in math class so that boys ask you to the dance? A long-term study from Harvard shows that the only correlation they can find between people who go to Harvard and people who are happy later in life is that if you do chores as a kid, you will be happier as an adult. After all, I came from a family where we had household help everywhere including a laundress whose mother had been a slave and she refused to use the front door of my house, let alone ask me to pick my clothes up off the floor. But it’s pretty easy to just give my son a set of chicks and say, “Water them or they’ll die.” He’s eight. I could worry about teaching the value of hard work.There’s a difference between good worries and bad worries.Psychology Today points out that the cave men who didn’t worry probably died quickly; some level of worry helps us overcome real problems.Parents who are wise enough to know that obsessing over test scores is outdated are also smart enough to know that it’s the hard-t0-test-for stuff that’s really important.The favorite hard-to-test-for thing to obsess about for parents who send their kids to school is socialization.
What I really worry about is that I am wasting away.