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So I am being engaging and flirty, yet charming and respectful in my messages and BOTH of these girls are writing back with 'lol' 'thanks' 'haha' and 'cool' as messages. I know people will instantly blame the message but it really isn't the case this time, I write a paragraph a time with humor, charm and flirtatiousness which I thought would be the ideal exchange. "I write a paragraph a time with humor, charm and flirtatiousness""So I am being engaging and flirty, yet charming and respectful in my messages"Sorry, but you may be being these thing in your messages, but "you" believe your a writing like this. Self proclaimed engaging, flirty, charming and respectful great self image, but other people may not perceive your messages like that. EDIT: "Please people stop with the easy to write bullsh*t of move on"Have a bit of a temper, do we?
Sorry but what on earth am I supposed to reply with them. Just saying maybe your messages aren't as good as you think they are. Hey, you come on a public forum asking questions and demand only the answers you deem acceptable? hehe"I am looking for an explanation as to why they think one word answers is ok. This seems to be the only answer in these forums 'not interested move on'. this has got nothing to do with me but more so a lapse of wit and personality on there part...
In answer to your question I do ask some questions which are clearly being ignored but at the end of the message I finish it off with something funny or nice like a compliment so I don't come across like I want to know everything about them all in one message.
can you copy and paste conversations in these forums or not, due to privacy issues, because then you could see for yourself how dull they are and how I am making an effort."HOW IS ANY OF THAT HELPFUL OR CONSTRUCTIVE ADVICE ON HOW TO RESOLVE THE SITUATION."The Tuff Guy's advice was exceedingly helpful, if you would just do it: 1) ask for digits, 2) ask them why they sent one word replies. I prefer not to wallow in speculation when empirical tests are available. OP...a woman is only replying with monosyllabic responses, then there are a couple possible reasons.1-they have nothing to say, because they have nothing to offer intellectually2-they are just replying to be polite3-they have someone they are already chatting heavily with, and want to keep you on a back burner in case that doesnt pan out4-they are not really looking to meet anyone, just testing the waters so to speak You could try shortening up your replies and only asking a question.
Can't really expect something like "haha" or "cool" in response to a question.Ask more questions and see if you get longer responses.If they don't ask you questions, I'd think they're a) self absorbed, b) not interested, c) dense, d) any combination of the above. Let's be honest it's not really a forum if the answers are not even slightly varied.I want compatibility and someone who I find interesting enough to be with not a doorknob.I could try it I suppose but I am a bit skeptical about such a forward approach All joking and razing aside. I personally wouldn't let a conversation go more then 5-6 exchanges without asking for the number as long as things have been going well.
They are still replying so NO i won't move on, I am not asking advice on what to do next I am looking for an explanation as to why they think one word answers is ok.