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I feel dirty all of a sudden I just realized I'm in an autotrader except for people. Education textbooks usually label 5-7 types of intelligence. We call a person intelligent who exhibets our brand of intelligence. Santa led us to believe that GOD was a freaking vending machine of goodies, and what's really behind the psychology of this ONLINE DATING is the Santa - God Myth that we are here to turn "relating" into a request for Spidey Man and his Car Kit, ....Barbie and Ken and the damn pink Porche and the RV complete with Skipper and the plastic baby.
They tell half truths, lies, and what i call fluff. Why not try being open and waiting on judgement a little while? I know a woman who is on SSI and labelled mildly retarded, but it's amazing the things she can tell you about homeopathic medicine and natural health foods. There is no Shamballa, slash heaven, slash, Santa's List.
Now, I would imagine the same thing could be said of male profiles as well, but I have no experience in that regard!
Is it simply a matter of deception, or is it really an unconscious SELF-deception at play here?
The traits I chose were being used only as examples to support a larger point. Though it's totally off-subject, we do only like our own brand of intelligence. So my theory is: If you don't lie about yourself, it won't be so hard on you in the long run. My only exception is someone who is married/living together and seeking extra curricular activity. One wierd byproduct is that....pictures don't accurately portray people. I've only dated one guy, and met another and it's just not for me to go trapsing all over the county with a case of rank jack. Some have gone out with striking women..they are like, We'll....
I have met a few on here that are real and what they describe themselves as, but I also met some fakes or find out somethings later on that are real troubling, but I look at it as just one fish in a sea of plenty.... For example, if a woman makes a point of describing herself as "sweet" or "intelligent", she usually turns out to NOT be all that sweet or intelligent.Some people never even graduated high school, but become very successful in business. I've probably read more literary classics than most university professors, but I couldn't do a simple algebra problem. I have a girlfriend who can go anywhere and make 5 new friends in 15 minutes. WE TEND TO ONLY LIKE OUR OWN BRAND OF IT AND CALL EVERYOONE ELSE STUPID. I'm not certain if you're addressing my comments or not. Some of us just have opinions that don't meet others' scales. I'd rather rant on my blog profile and play with this damn website than date most of the guys here. They are rich and have values....damn I'm not marrying a Korean guy I can't talk to who I am not attracted to and runs an import business in the greater LA area. I get social input, and maybe, maybe....a decent fellow my age with pop in and we will hit it off. Now don't get me wrong, it's not like everyone hasn't done it before. But after awhile, I realized that it doesn't do me any good. But yeah, plenty of "I'm soooo nice and sweet and I just want to have a serious relationship" usually means "Depending on who you are, I will not use you for a one-night stand." Or at least, that's from my little bit of experience. I actually find it quite amusing how important people feel profile descriptions are. I hate to seem cynical, because I'm really not, but profile descriptions are all sleight of hand, smoke, and mirrors.Trying to look like a bad-arse when really I'm too soft, is not a good thing. I would agree that it is denial and self-deception.
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