Dear Penny

The die is cast. I’m booked in to start after my next period, presuming, that is (and I must at all times remain positive), a miracle hasn’t happened naturally.

Oh God, I do so want a child. Sometimes I think about praying. Not like going-to-church praying, but just at home in the quiet. In fact, if I’m honest I do occasionally offer up a silent one, just in my head when no one’s about. But then I think that that’s wrong and presumptuous of me because I don’t believe in God in any conventional sense so I have no right to pray to him (her? it?), do I? On the other hand, if he doesn’t exist I’ve lost nothing and if he does exist then I imagine he’d prefer even a sceptical prayer to no prayer at all so I can’t really lose, can I?

I’m certainly not an atheist anyway because there must be something bigger than us. There are so many questions that scientists can’t answer. Who are we? Who made us? Is there a reason? The easy answer to all that of course is God. The universe is a mystery and we shall call the author of that mystery God. That’s how I see it, anyway. I suppose I’m an agnostic, which I know is the easy way out. And also very self-indulgent because basically it means not believing in something except when it suits you.

Actually I think it’s amazing how arrogant we’ve become about God. He used to be a figure of fear and majesty, the ultimate authority before whom humanity was supposed to prostrate itself in humble repentance for our sins. Now you hear people talk about God as if he was some kind of rather eager stress counsellor or therapist. I was watching a bit of daytime American chat show the other day and someone said, “I hadn’t talked to God in a long time but when I needed him he was there for me.” The presenter nodded wisely and added, “You have to make time to let God into your life.” This unbelievable banality actually got a round of applause! I couldn’t believe the arrogance of it! Like this person and God were equals, pals! It’s amazing, this ready appropriation of the supreme being as some sort of spineless yes man who is on ready call to tell you that you’re beautiful and that everything is fine whenever you feel a bit low. I can just imagine God sitting in his heaven amongst his mighty host thinking to himself, “Oh no, some self-indulgent, self-obsessed sad sack of de-caf and doughnuts hasn’t called… If only these people would make room in their lives to let me in.”

I really don’t know what I feel about religion but I do know that if I’m going to have a God I want a great and terrible God, a God of splendour, mystery and majesty, not one that spends his time chatting to whingers about how stressed they are.

Perhaps I’m just being mean. If people find comfort that way why should it worry me? I wish I could find comfort, just a little, because I do want a baby so very much and sometimes the feelings are so strong I don’t know what to do with them.

Dear Sam

Lucy got her period today. We’ve drained the dregs at the last-chance saloon and now it’s time to put our trust in the medical profession. Lucy asked me if I’d thought about praying and I said I hadn’t but I was happy to give it a go if she wanted me to. We must leave no avenue of opportunity unexplored. Who knows, it might work. It seems to me that the idea of an old man with a white beard sitting on a cloud dispensing goodwill doesn’t sound any more absurd than the bollocks most physicists talk. I mean really, every single bloke I know bought A Brief History of Time and not one of them, including me, understood a single word of it.

Why do we have such faith in scientists? When I was at school they told us that in days gone by simple folk believed the world was balanced on the back of a tortoise. How we laughed! “What a bunch of prats,” we said. Ho ho ho! Because we know better, don’t we? Apparently, according to Stephen Hawking and his pals there was this tiny lump of infinitely dense stuff the size of a cricketball, contained within which was the entire universe. Where this cricketball was and where it had come from are questions which apparently only stupid people ask. Anyway, one day the rock exploded and all the energy and stuff blasted out from the epicentre and formed into stars and galaxies which are still hurtling outwards to this very day.

Now why is that any more convincing than the tortoise?

They keep saying that if we spend another trillion or two on a new telescope they’ll be able to tell us exactly how the universe began. They keep telling us how close they are, saying things like, “When the universe was three seconds old, protons began to form…” Well maybe, but I think that a hundred years from now they’ll discover that the universe got farted out of the arse of a giant space elephant and school kids will all be laughing to think that anybody ever believed in the big bang theory.

Sometimes the self-righteousness of the scientific profession really gets on my nerves. They always seem to assume that science is sort of outside society, that what scientists do is pure and that it is other people who corrupt it. I saw a documentary about Einstein and Oppenheimer on the Discovery Channel the other day and it was going on about what simple, peaceful men they were and that during the war they sent a letter to President Truman pleading with him not to drop the bomb. They said that it was too big, too terrible and man had no right to unleash such a force. All I could think was what a couple of hypocrites! For years they’d struggled. For years they’d devoted their colossal brains to developing a bomb which the rest of us would have to spend our lives living in the shadow of, and then they reckon they can get out of their responsibilities by saying, “Please don’t drop it,” and go down in history as sad-eyed, white-haired old peacemakers.

I went in to see Nigel today. He’d rung me twice from Toronto sounding me out about directors and co-producers. He feels we need to bring some experienced film-making talent into the mix. He’s right, I think. I mean George and Trevor are great but what do they or I know about doing a distribution deal with a chain of movie houses in France? Besides which, Nigel feels that the budget will need to expand somewhat and put it outside the reach of the BBC alone. The reason for this is not because the film has got any more expensive but because Nigel feels it has such potential that we need to take it to a name director, someone with a proven track record. That of course means paying the going rate, which can run into a great deal of cash. It’s a fact that with most movies, particularly the Hollywood variety, a very large chunk of the vast budgets that are quoted so gloatingly in the press is actually spent on the wages of just a few individuals.

Anyway, as I say, Nigel wants to make this movie in partnership with another production company.

“We need someone with experience,” he said to me over the phone with the voices of Canadian TV execs crackling in the background, “but hip. We must remember at all times that we are positioning ourselves at the cutting edge.”

I knew what was coming and I wasn’t wrong. Today I had my second meeting with Justin, Petra and Ewan Proclaimer from Above The Line Productions.

I must say it was a very different affair this time. Petra actually smiled at me and Justin gripped my shoulder saying, “On the money, pal. Kickin’ ass.” Even Ewan stopped snarling and treated me with a degree of civility. It seems that he’s even hotter than he was when I met him at Claridge’s. He’s landed a three-picture deal to direct in Hollywood. I doubt any of these films will be the Aids and Heroin project he showed me. In fact he mentioned something about a sci-fi thing with Gary Oldham and Bruce Willis. Anyway, it seems he has a six-month “window” before he begins pre-production “across the big pond”, and he loves my script.